Episode 25

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4th Aug 2025

I Tried That and It Didn’t Work: The Real Reason Your Systems Fail

Ever signed up for a shiny new tool—like online scheduling, a missed-call text back, or even Facebook ads—only to say later: “I tried that and it didn’t work”?

You’re not alone. Most home service pros are only using about 10% of what’s possible with the systems they buy. The result? Frustration, wasted money, and no real change in the business.

In this episode, Lani and Jeana break down the truth about why systems fail—and how to actually connect the dots so your business can scale. You’ll learn how to stop blaming yourself, stop falling for “bro marketer” quick fixes, and finally build a setup that works for you (not against you).

What You’ll Learn

  • Why “it didn’t work” usually isn’t your fault
  • The hidden gaps that keep most pros stuck at 10% capacity
  • Why Facebook ads aren’t a magic bullet (and what to fix first)
  • What a full lift automation stack actually looks like
  • How to build smarter, one piece at a time, without overwhelm

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Transcript
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>> Lani Dickinson: Welcome back to the Freedom to Exit podcast. I'm your host,

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Lani Dickinson and I still have

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my favorite Jena deaier here, tech

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wizard, business wizard here.

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And together we are launching the tool belt

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empire and booked out radio

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for all of those home service pros who are

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still working really hard

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and chasing this income roller coaster

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and making all the things happen, but super tired

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and we can make all that go

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away. Today we are talking about why

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most home service Pros use like

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10%. That's probably generous of what's

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possible, which keeps them stuck.

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Today's conversation is going to hit home for a lot of you.

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If you've ever said something like, yeah, I tried that,

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it didn't work. This episode is for

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you. Let's talk about why that's

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happening and why you might only

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be using that small 10% of what's possible in

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your business right now and what we can

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do to solve that. We see it all the time. A

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solo home, services handyman

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person signs up for something like

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online scheduling, but they don't connect it to the quote

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system and maybe even the quote system is still pen

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and paper and they're typing things out or they don't connect

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it to their review system or their reminders

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so then the client isn't home when they show

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up. Maybe they've tried missed call text

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back but they didn't have a booking link in the message.

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So it was still more back and forth that needed

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to happen rather than it happening autom magically.

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Or somebody sells them a Facebook ad. We don't sell

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any Facebook ads. Somebody says, oh, you need Facebook

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ads, but there's nobody to answer

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the phone and you can't keep up with

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the callbacks because now you've been flooded and you can't follow up

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with those 250 leads that you just purchased.

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We see it all the time.

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>> Speaker B: So therefore you think they're bad leads.

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>> Lani Dickinson: So bad leads. Or it't. The system didn't work.

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>> Speaker B: The system didn't work. So I'm not gonna do it

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again.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Not gonna do it again. It's kind of like

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installing from my perspective, a smart

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thermostat, but not putting it on your H Vac.

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It's tech, but it's not helping. It's

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still hot and you're still minim pretty.

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>> Speaker B: They're on your, on your wall. But.

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>> Lani Dickinson: So why is it not their fault?

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>> Speaker B: Well, it's not their fault because

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they've been sold on a tool,

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probably from another

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bro as we call them.

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but they Were never told how.

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>> Lani Dickinson: To use it or expected to just go figure it

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out on their own.

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>> Speaker B: Exactly, exactly. And if you're not techie,

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it's a scary thing to get something that you think,

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oh my gosh, I don't know how to do this.

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Like the thermostat.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Yeah.

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>> Speaker B: You know, they're all like computerized

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now.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Well, today I came back to the Airbnb and

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I said, I got to get changed, I got to put my makeup on. You

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want to put that printer together?

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>> Speaker B: Sure. She did.

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So we put together a printer and printed out our papers before we

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came. but you're not told how to use it,

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so it's not your fault. You're

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not dumb. By all means. I don't

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liket make people feel like they're

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dumb. they just weren't told how to use something.

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>> Lani Dickinson: The other thing I think happens in the it's not your fault

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category is these people are looking for a

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solution to grow their business or make life less stressful

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or easier. they're not really looking for easy

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life. I've never met, home services pro who's looking for

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easy. Right. But they're trying

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to get more leads. That's

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usually the thing, you know, get more leads. There's other

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things they're trying to solve. Get home for dinner, no more empty chairs at dinner.

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Those kinds of things.

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>> Speaker B: Well, the main one is get the, get the invoices out

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in time, get the invoices out, quotes out, get the

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invoices out so that you can get.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Paid, get the cash back, get cashackeah. And then go

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on your collection rounds. Right?

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>> Speaker B: Yeah, exactly.

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>> Lani Dickinson: So they're trying to solve this one thing and then

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they get ah, hold of a marketer.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Us marketers are not very popular in the home

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services world. We know because

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the bro marketer comes and says,

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I sell Facebook ads. You need Facebook ads,

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that'll solve it. And then all this other

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infrastructure isn't in place. So,

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they're often not the expert

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in what they need. They just know they have the

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problem.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Somebody's not listening really well.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Or they're too eager to sell what they have available to

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sell instead of saying you need a comprehensive

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strategy.

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>> Speaker B: We've met, I've met so many clients in

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my day that had Facebook ads

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or something else they were

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given and we start looking at it

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and was just never even set up for

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success, you know. And they've paid all this

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money because Facebook people

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know how to run ads. They don't know marketing.

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They really don't. They just know how to run ads.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Certainly don't know tech.

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>> Speaker B: No, they don't. And so they're selling them

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what they want them to have and not what they

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need because they, number one, aren't listening

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to their problems. So what

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we do is we talk. We talk to

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you and say, what is your biggest thing you want to be solved?

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What's bothering you the most?

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>> Lani Dickinson: How's that impacting? Yes, show me what you do when you try.

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>> Speaker B: A lot of people that I talk to say it's

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not the lack of leads. It's like my phone rings

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all the time and I can't get to it. So

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I know I'm losing them. It's not like I'm not being found,

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it's like I'm not being able to answer them. And

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so that a lot of times is the number one thing that we need to

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go in and start with.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Yeah, let's start at the beginning, start.

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>> Speaker B: There and solve that problem. And then, okay, we

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got an automated system that's answering those calls for

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you and answering questions like Voice A

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IY answers your questions, answers their

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questions, it vets them for you and then

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they come to you ready to buy. What's the next piece

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that you need help with to make that work?

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>> Lani Dickinson: Yep. So yeah, that you're

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amazing at that. So as we talk about

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this, I want to describe what a full lift

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automation stack would really look like. And there's some stuff left

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out just. But I think this will give a pretty

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good example. When someone sees your

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QR code, hopefully you have that on your door hangers

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or your truck, they scan it,

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sends them to a booking page, they

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get automatic follow up with

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confirmation. They get their service or their

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quote or whatever scheduled. You control the calendar,

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but they get scheduled and then they get

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reminders so that they remember you're coming

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and if they need to change the appointment, they can do that without

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ever bugging you. All of that can happen with automation

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which decreases your no shows and all those

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kinds of things. And then after that they're on

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your list. So now we can

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send them, oh, the service was done. Can you leave us a

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review and then we'll respond to

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the review? That's all in automation with AI. And

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then we can say, can you refer a friend?

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All of that without you having to ask for a referral.

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Ask, hey, did you ever get a chance to do that review?

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And then they get the email like Gina talked

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about in a couple episodes ago where the Painter

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sent you a new email with a 20% off. Right.

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So now we can get, get your people

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on an ongoing relationship building

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email list that sends seasonal specials

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and give special pricing and those kinds of

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things, but keeps you top of mind.

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That's a system.

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>> Speaker B: It's not all about sellingeah, it's

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about nurturing your people.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Perf. Perfect.

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>> Speaker B: And let them know you're still there.

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Like you talked about seasonal. So when you're

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going into the summer months, if you're an H

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VAC person, you want to send out, want

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maybe some email about how your

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conditioners run harder in the summer and

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just information.

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>> Lani Dickinson: How you can keep it alive a couple more years.

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>> Speaker B: Yes, yes. Which everyone wants to.

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so just that nurturing. And so when something happens

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they're remembering you because. Oh yeah, they've been talking to

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me about this. They're gonna call you

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probably before they're gonna call someone else.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Now I've been at the

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digital game for I don't know,

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15 years or something, how long we been

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together. And so what I just

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said sounds like a lot probably to somebody who's

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just texting or has just started. Right. So they're

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like oh my gosh, that sounds like a

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lot. I don't even know how I would put all that together. So

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they're freaking out. So I'd love for you to share like all

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the times I come to you, I have this big

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flip chart vision and

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you're like hold on, what

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problem are we really solving?

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>> Lani Dickinson: You don't need that. So share a little bit about that

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and how easy it is actually to build this stuff

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one piece at a time when you know what you're really trying to

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solve.

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>> Speaker B: I come from the Floo Flowart days of computer

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programming and so I think in

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Flowchart it's kind of weird, but so I back

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her up and go, okay, number one, back it up.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Tonka truck.

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>> Speaker B: What is the problem? And then

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how are we going to solve it?

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>> Lani Dickinson: Ye.

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>> Speaker B: And then there's all these questions of okay, when they answer

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this way, what are we going to do? So I

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start asking all these questions and by the time we're done we've

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got this whole flip chart of arrows going. They do

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this, they go over here, they do this, they go down here. And so

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we've got it all visually.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Built all the way around a hotel.

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>> Speaker B: All the way around the hotel room. And then we take that

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and give that to our lovely

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assistant who then builds that

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for us in the background. So it's a

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whole feel, but it's starting

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out simple.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Yep.

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>> Speaker B: You know, you don't need. And we've just done this not

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too long ago. They don't need all this stuff down here.

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They need this. And that's kind of where the

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tool belt empire has evolved from

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her big exit

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strategy stuff. But you gotta get them

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ready for that. And so let's start with let.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Start here two days before the exit.

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>> Speaker B: Yeah, you gotta start them here and start helping them build

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that business to be ready to exit down

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the road.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Right. That's one of the things that I think

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you're really good. I'm always like,

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the whole thing. No kidding. I go somewhere to a

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conference or something. And she's like, do not

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purchase any new stuff. You don't need it. You don't

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need it.

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>> Speaker B: That's right.

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>> Lani Dickinson: And so many people try to sell you more

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stuff. But Gina's like, what problem

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do you have right now? And what's the next problem that it's going

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to create when we fix it? Let's focus

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on that. And because

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that once you fix that, there's actually other problems. It's not

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all this. No, problems are opportunities. I

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say problems, but like, if we get you more leads now, you have

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to follow up. That's a problem. But it's a really good. It's an opportunity. It's a good

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problem to have. If you've ever

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said, I tried that but it didn't work, I truly want

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What are we talking about?

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>> Speaker B: I don't know. Episode.

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>> Lani Dickinson: What happens when your book solid but still broke

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because yes, that's a thing'ye. So that's what we're

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going to talk about on the next episode. For now,

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download the guide book your Google my business profile

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audit and start thinking about how

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>> Speaker B: And you can tell you're not tech because it's not called Google

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my business anymore. It's called Google

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business profile.

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>> Lani Dickinson: Google my business or Google business profile.

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Whichever works for you.

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>> Speaker B: Just want to throw that out there.

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>> Lani Dickinson: M. Remember, I'm the strategist. She's the typ.

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>> Speaker B: People that know that they're going know what she's talking

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about. She doesn't. That's why I'm here.

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>> Lani Dickinson: That should not get edited out.

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So funny. As always, I want to say thank you for joining

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us today. We are so grateful for the time that you give us

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to talk about your business and help you make it

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better. And, we'd love for you to share this

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with somebody who needs the information. We'd love for you to

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subscribe, leave a comment, anything that

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will serve you. We'd love for you to do

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that. And we will. See you on the next episode.

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About the Podcast

Freedom To Exit
Freedom to Exit with Lani Dickinson
Freedom to Exit helps small business owners turn buyers into beggars by building sustainable, scalable, and sellable businesses—while avoiding earn-outs, seller financing, and discounted exits.

Hosted by Lani Dickinson, this podcast is for entrepreneurs who want to build a business that runs without them and sells on their terms.

Most businesses never sell. Why? Because they weren’t built to be sellable. Whether your goal is time and location freedom or a profitable exit, the steps are the same:
- Designing a scalable, self-sustaining company
- Building predictable, repeatable revenue
- Structuring your business to attract the right buyers
- Avoiding seller financing, earn-outs, and bad deals
- Understanding how buyers structure deals so you can negotiate from strength

Each week, Lani breaks down the realities of exiting a business, shares insights from top entrepreneurs and buyers, and gives you the tools to maximize your company’s value before you even think about selling.

If you want to own a business that works for you—not the other way around—Freedom to Exit will show you exactly how to get there.

About your host

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Lani Dickinson

Lani Dickinson is a former Fortune 175 CEO who left the corporate world to help business owners achieve what most never do—true freedom. Through STEALTH, she helps founders scale smarter, exit richer, and reclaim their lives by transforming their businesses into sellable, high-value assets.

Most entrepreneurs are trapped in a cycle of working too much and earning too little freedom. Lani’s expertise lies in building sustainable, scalable, and sellable businesses—giving founders the ability to step back, cash out, or create a legacy that lasts. If you’re ready to stop running your business and start owning your life, you’re in the right place.