I Tried That and It Didn’t Work: The Real Reason Your Systems Fail
Ever signed up for a shiny new tool—like online scheduling, a missed-call text back, or even Facebook ads—only to say later: “I tried that and it didn’t work”?
You’re not alone. Most home service pros are only using about 10% of what’s possible with the systems they buy. The result? Frustration, wasted money, and no real change in the business.
In this episode, Lani and Jeana break down the truth about why systems fail—and how to actually connect the dots so your business can scale. You’ll learn how to stop blaming yourself, stop falling for “bro marketer” quick fixes, and finally build a setup that works for you (not against you).
What You’ll Learn
- Why “it didn’t work” usually isn’t your fault
- The hidden gaps that keep most pros stuck at 10% capacity
- Why Facebook ads aren’t a magic bullet (and what to fix first)
- What a full lift automation stack actually looks like
- How to build smarter, one piece at a time, without overwhelm
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Transcript
>> Lani Dickinson: Welcome back to the Freedom to Exit podcast. I'm your host,
Speaker:Lani Dickinson and I still have
Speaker:my favorite Jena deaier here, tech
Speaker:wizard, business wizard here.
Speaker:And together we are launching the tool belt
Speaker:empire and booked out radio
Speaker:for all of those home service pros who are
Speaker:still working really hard
Speaker:and chasing this income roller coaster
Speaker:and making all the things happen, but super tired
Speaker:and we can make all that go
Speaker:away. Today we are talking about why
Speaker:most home service Pros use like
Speaker:10%. That's probably generous of what's
Speaker:possible, which keeps them stuck.
Speaker:Today's conversation is going to hit home for a lot of you.
Speaker:If you've ever said something like, yeah, I tried that,
Speaker:it didn't work. This episode is for
Speaker:you. Let's talk about why that's
Speaker:happening and why you might only
Speaker:be using that small 10% of what's possible in
Speaker:your business right now and what we can
Speaker:do to solve that. We see it all the time. A
Speaker:solo home, services handyman
Speaker:person signs up for something like
Speaker:online scheduling, but they don't connect it to the quote
Speaker:system and maybe even the quote system is still pen
Speaker:and paper and they're typing things out or they don't connect
Speaker:it to their review system or their reminders
Speaker:so then the client isn't home when they show
Speaker:up. Maybe they've tried missed call text
Speaker:back but they didn't have a booking link in the message.
Speaker:So it was still more back and forth that needed
Speaker:to happen rather than it happening autom magically.
Speaker:Or somebody sells them a Facebook ad. We don't sell
Speaker:any Facebook ads. Somebody says, oh, you need Facebook
Speaker:ads, but there's nobody to answer
Speaker:the phone and you can't keep up with
Speaker:the callbacks because now you've been flooded and you can't follow up
Speaker:with those 250 leads that you just purchased.
Speaker:We see it all the time.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: So therefore you think they're bad leads.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: So bad leads. Or it't. The system didn't work.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: The system didn't work. So I'm not gonna do it
Speaker:again.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Not gonna do it again. It's kind of like
Speaker:installing from my perspective, a smart
Speaker:thermostat, but not putting it on your H Vac.
Speaker:It's tech, but it's not helping. It's
Speaker:still hot and you're still minim pretty.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: They're on your, on your wall. But.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: So why is it not their fault?
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Well, it's not their fault because
Speaker:they've been sold on a tool,
Speaker:probably from another
Speaker:bro as we call them.
Speaker:but they Were never told how.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: To use it or expected to just go figure it
Speaker:out on their own.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Exactly, exactly. And if you're not techie,
Speaker:it's a scary thing to get something that you think,
Speaker:oh my gosh, I don't know how to do this.
Speaker:Like the thermostat.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Yeah.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: You know, they're all like computerized
Speaker:now.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Well, today I came back to the Airbnb and
Speaker:I said, I got to get changed, I got to put my makeup on. You
Speaker:want to put that printer together?
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Sure. She did.
Speaker:So we put together a printer and printed out our papers before we
Speaker:came. but you're not told how to use it,
Speaker:so it's not your fault. You're
Speaker:not dumb. By all means. I don't
Speaker:liket make people feel like they're
Speaker:dumb. they just weren't told how to use something.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: The other thing I think happens in the it's not your fault
Speaker:category is these people are looking for a
Speaker:solution to grow their business or make life less stressful
Speaker:or easier. they're not really looking for easy
Speaker:life. I've never met, home services pro who's looking for
Speaker:easy. Right. But they're trying
Speaker:to get more leads. That's
Speaker:usually the thing, you know, get more leads. There's other
Speaker:things they're trying to solve. Get home for dinner, no more empty chairs at dinner.
Speaker:Those kinds of things.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Well, the main one is get the, get the invoices out
Speaker:in time, get the invoices out, quotes out, get the
Speaker:invoices out so that you can get.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Paid, get the cash back, get cashackeah. And then go
Speaker:on your collection rounds. Right?
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: So they're trying to solve this one thing and then
Speaker:they get ah, hold of a marketer.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Us marketers are not very popular in the home
Speaker:services world. We know because
Speaker:the bro marketer comes and says,
Speaker:I sell Facebook ads. You need Facebook ads,
Speaker:that'll solve it. And then all this other
Speaker:infrastructure isn't in place. So,
Speaker:they're often not the expert
Speaker:in what they need. They just know they have the
Speaker:problem.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Somebody's not listening really well.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Or they're too eager to sell what they have available to
Speaker:sell instead of saying you need a comprehensive
Speaker:strategy.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: We've met, I've met so many clients in
Speaker:my day that had Facebook ads
Speaker:or something else they were
Speaker:given and we start looking at it
Speaker:and was just never even set up for
Speaker:success, you know. And they've paid all this
Speaker:money because Facebook people
Speaker:know how to run ads. They don't know marketing.
Speaker:They really don't. They just know how to run ads.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Certainly don't know tech.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: No, they don't. And so they're selling them
Speaker:what they want them to have and not what they
Speaker:need because they, number one, aren't listening
Speaker:to their problems. So what
Speaker:we do is we talk. We talk to
Speaker:you and say, what is your biggest thing you want to be solved?
Speaker:What's bothering you the most?
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: How's that impacting? Yes, show me what you do when you try.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: A lot of people that I talk to say it's
Speaker:not the lack of leads. It's like my phone rings
Speaker:all the time and I can't get to it. So
Speaker:I know I'm losing them. It's not like I'm not being found,
Speaker:it's like I'm not being able to answer them. And
Speaker:so that a lot of times is the number one thing that we need to
Speaker:go in and start with.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Yeah, let's start at the beginning, start.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: There and solve that problem. And then, okay, we
Speaker:got an automated system that's answering those calls for
Speaker:you and answering questions like Voice A
Speaker:IY answers your questions, answers their
Speaker:questions, it vets them for you and then
Speaker:they come to you ready to buy. What's the next piece
Speaker:that you need help with to make that work?
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Yep. So yeah, that you're
Speaker:amazing at that. So as we talk about
Speaker:this, I want to describe what a full lift
Speaker:automation stack would really look like. And there's some stuff left
Speaker:out just. But I think this will give a pretty
Speaker:good example. When someone sees your
Speaker:QR code, hopefully you have that on your door hangers
Speaker:or your truck, they scan it,
Speaker:sends them to a booking page, they
Speaker:get automatic follow up with
Speaker:confirmation. They get their service or their
Speaker:quote or whatever scheduled. You control the calendar,
Speaker:but they get scheduled and then they get
Speaker:reminders so that they remember you're coming
Speaker:and if they need to change the appointment, they can do that without
Speaker:ever bugging you. All of that can happen with automation
Speaker:which decreases your no shows and all those
Speaker:kinds of things. And then after that they're on
Speaker:your list. So now we can
Speaker:send them, oh, the service was done. Can you leave us a
Speaker:review and then we'll respond to
Speaker:the review? That's all in automation with AI. And
Speaker:then we can say, can you refer a friend?
Speaker:All of that without you having to ask for a referral.
Speaker:Ask, hey, did you ever get a chance to do that review?
Speaker:And then they get the email like Gina talked
Speaker:about in a couple episodes ago where the Painter
Speaker:sent you a new email with a 20% off. Right.
Speaker:So now we can get, get your people
Speaker:on an ongoing relationship building
Speaker:email list that sends seasonal specials
Speaker:and give special pricing and those kinds of
Speaker:things, but keeps you top of mind.
Speaker:That's a system.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: It's not all about sellingeah, it's
Speaker:about nurturing your people.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Perf. Perfect.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: And let them know you're still there.
Speaker:Like you talked about seasonal. So when you're
Speaker:going into the summer months, if you're an H
Speaker:VAC person, you want to send out, want
Speaker:maybe some email about how your
Speaker:conditioners run harder in the summer and
Speaker:just information.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: How you can keep it alive a couple more years.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Yes, yes. Which everyone wants to.
Speaker:so just that nurturing. And so when something happens
Speaker:they're remembering you because. Oh yeah, they've been talking to
Speaker:me about this. They're gonna call you
Speaker:probably before they're gonna call someone else.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Now I've been at the
Speaker:digital game for I don't know,
Speaker:15 years or something, how long we been
Speaker:together. And so what I just
Speaker:said sounds like a lot probably to somebody who's
Speaker:just texting or has just started. Right. So they're
Speaker:like oh my gosh, that sounds like a
Speaker:lot. I don't even know how I would put all that together. So
Speaker:they're freaking out. So I'd love for you to share like all
Speaker:the times I come to you, I have this big
Speaker:flip chart vision and
Speaker:you're like hold on, what
Speaker:problem are we really solving?
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: You don't need that. So share a little bit about that
Speaker:and how easy it is actually to build this stuff
Speaker:one piece at a time when you know what you're really trying to
Speaker:solve.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: I come from the Floo Flowart days of computer
Speaker:programming and so I think in
Speaker:Flowchart it's kind of weird, but so I back
Speaker:her up and go, okay, number one, back it up.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Tonka truck.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: What is the problem? And then
Speaker:how are we going to solve it?
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Ye.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: And then there's all these questions of okay, when they answer
Speaker:this way, what are we going to do? So I
Speaker:start asking all these questions and by the time we're done we've
Speaker:got this whole flip chart of arrows going. They do
Speaker:this, they go over here, they do this, they go down here. And so
Speaker:we've got it all visually.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Built all the way around a hotel.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: All the way around the hotel room. And then we take that
Speaker:and give that to our lovely
Speaker:assistant who then builds that
Speaker:for us in the background. So it's a
Speaker:whole feel, but it's starting
Speaker:out simple.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Yep.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: You know, you don't need. And we've just done this not
Speaker:too long ago. They don't need all this stuff down here.
Speaker:They need this. And that's kind of where the
Speaker:tool belt empire has evolved from
Speaker:her big exit
Speaker:strategy stuff. But you gotta get them
Speaker:ready for that. And so let's start with let.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Start here two days before the exit.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Yeah, you gotta start them here and start helping them build
Speaker:that business to be ready to exit down
Speaker:the road.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Right. That's one of the things that I think
Speaker:you're really good. I'm always like,
Speaker:the whole thing. No kidding. I go somewhere to a
Speaker:conference or something. And she's like, do not
Speaker:purchase any new stuff. You don't need it. You don't
Speaker:need it.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: That's right.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: And so many people try to sell you more
Speaker:stuff. But Gina's like, what problem
Speaker:do you have right now? And what's the next problem that it's going
Speaker:to create when we fix it? Let's focus
Speaker:on that. And because
Speaker:that once you fix that, there's actually other problems. It's not
Speaker:all this. No, problems are opportunities. I
Speaker:say problems, but like, if we get you more leads now, you have
Speaker:to follow up. That's a problem. But it's a really good. It's an opportunity. It's a good
Speaker:problem to have. If you've ever
Speaker:said, I tried that but it didn't work, I truly want
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Speaker:Download the six hidden leaks in your
Speaker:business that are bleeding you dry
Speaker:because it shows you some of the parts that are missing
Speaker:and how to connect the tools that are readily
Speaker:available and not
Speaker:tough to really implement.
Speaker:And when you download that
Speaker:and in the show notes, there's also an opportunity to have a
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Speaker:Gina. This she's really good at
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Speaker:week when we talk about.
Speaker:What are we talking about?
Speaker:>> Speaker B: I don't know. Episode.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: What happens when your book solid but still broke
Speaker:because yes, that's a thing'ye. So that's what we're
Speaker:going to talk about on the next episode. For now,
Speaker:download the guide book your Google my business profile
Speaker:audit and start thinking about how
Speaker:you want to make some of these easy changes in
Speaker:your business.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: And you can tell you're not tech because it's not called Google
Speaker:my business anymore. It's called Google
Speaker:business profile.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: Google my business or Google business profile.
Speaker:Whichever works for you.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: Just want to throw that out there.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: M. Remember, I'm the strategist. She's the typ.
Speaker:>> Speaker B: People that know that they're going know what she's talking
Speaker:about. She doesn't. That's why I'm here.
Speaker:>> Lani Dickinson: That should not get edited out.
Speaker:So funny. As always, I want to say thank you for joining
Speaker:us today. We are so grateful for the time that you give us
Speaker:to talk about your business and help you make it
Speaker:better. And, we'd love for you to share this
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Speaker:that. And we will. See you on the next episode.